Thursday, July 10, 2014

Rad

I don't know how Miles is so resilient.  Aside from my mother, Miles is without a doubt, the most cheerful person I know, 90% of the time.  He definitely has his grouchy magoo times, but seriously, that kid is unreal. Whenever both Miles and I are lacking sleep, it's like I'm the kid and he's the adult.  He puts me to shame.

We got back from our surprise-my-parents-at-their-homecoming trip super late.  Miles was ridiculous that night, but nothing but a peach the next day.  Me?  Not so much.

Here we are, the day after we got back at dinner.

Me:

Miles:
Slight difference, no?

Anyway, this meal lead to some great conversation with Miles.  Check it out:
Shake from DAM FAM on Vimeo.
Rad from DAM FAM on Vimeo.

Friday, June 20, 2014

Miles

I've sort of created a picture monster.  Not because he loves to have his picture taken, but because he won't do typical things most people do for a picture.  The things I'm referring to include, but are not limited to:

-Hold still.
-Smile.

Of all the thousands (literally, thousands) of pictures I've taken of this kid, I've rarely asked him to sit just so and "smile."  I've just let him do whatever he was doing and went for it.  I don't regret it-- I like pictures when they are genuine and candid.  But now it makes for a difficult time getting him to just take a quick picture.  And he doesn't know how to smile nicely, on demand.

Pretty much any time I want to take his picture, he just moves incessantly and makes silly faces and I just click, click, click away.  And then we end up with too many pictures.

Case in point below.  But first, let me tell you a bit about Miles at this time of his life.

I don't really know where to start, because I can't remember what all I've jotted down about him on here over the last couple years....

Miles is the most amazing little kid there ever was.  He's such a pleasure.  Kindergarten took a lot of his awesomeness away-- I think each day was just so long and tiring-- he wasn't his usual incredibly cheerful self.  But now that school has been out for a few weeks, it's been incredible to have him back, full force Miles.  He's super smart, but Kindergarten made him a little less smart when it comes to math.  Before he started school, he had an uncanny ability to do addition and subtraction in his head.  Like I'm saying, you could ask him, "What is 15 + 22?" and he would deliver the correct answer in 30 seconds or less.  It was really amazing to watch.  Then he went to school and I guess he started modeling after his teacher and whatever method she was teaching and it sort of messed up whatever awesome, natural thing he had going in his head.  That was kind of a bummer to see.  What can you do?  I'm sure it will all even out in the end.

Miles will tell anyone and everyone that he doesn't like school.  I pretty much believe him, and therefore I'm thankful he didn't fight going or try to stay home.  I was absolutely shocked on the last day of school when I picked him up and he didn't seem elated.  While we were walking to our car I was asking him if he was excited school was out for the summer and he got his adorable fighting-back-emotions bottom lip and told me he was going to miss everyone.  He is such a tender, sensitive little soul.

He is still crazy passionate about hockey.  He has a great wealth of knowledge about the sport, teams and players and has no idea how cool his mom is.  All the time he asks me who [insert random hockey players' name here] plays for and while he knows significantly more NHL hockey players than I do, I do pretty good.  I hope he will be able to remember and appreciate some day that his old mom knew a thing or two about sports.

Miles also loves cars.  He likes NASCAR!  Can you believe that?!  Pretty sure his favorite driver is Jimmy Johnson.  He has way too many hotwheels cars and we totally brainwashed him to only choose real cars. So he's a snob and all his cars are replicas of real cars, not the silly made up ones.  He sets up races and drives his cars around our couch all the time.  100% of his play time is spent playing hockey (or another sport-- baseball, soccer, but primarily hockey) or racing cars.  There is no doubt that this kid gets enough physical activity, despite our not having a yard or much accessibility to outdoor play.  He also really loves games and is crazy competitive.  Get him and Dave playing something together and it's sure to end in arguing and/or tears.  Dave's a real baby ;).

He still loves music, but I'd say he's less obsessive than he used to be.  He always wants it on and he would absolutely always pick what we listened to if we let him.  We have to be careful these days, because he's really listening to lyrics.  Listening to music is by no means a mindless, background type of activity for Miles.  Yikes.

He loves swimming.

He loves Dove chocolate.

He would never eat a chicken nugget but he'll down an artichoke.  I'll take that.

He's unbelievably literal.  It can be pretty frustrating.  One night we were trying to teach him the difference between general and specific.  Dave told him to "walk to the other side of the room," and the kid stood there in frustration and pointed out that there was more than one wall and wouldn't go without being told which side of the room.  No joke.  Very specific, that Miles.  He gets really frustrated when he doesn't understand something straight away.

He has the most adorable freckles.  Dave worries about them and tells me (covered in freckles) that freckles don't age well (uh huh, thanks), and tells me to lather on the sunscreen, but I think they are adorable on him.

He's incredibly understanding and considerate and kind.  Like if I'm sick or something, he's so good to me and lets me take a nap or plays quietly or whatever he can do to help.

He still loves to laugh, as ever.

He really loves Dave and I.  He really is just a super happy kid, and we really love him.

So here he is, 5 years and 8 months old, before he got glasses and before he lost his second tooth.  Love you, buddy.

































Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Chile Boys

There are a lot of boys in the grand kid line-up on my side of the family.  My Mom and Dad brought them all back a Chile soccer jersey.

This isn't all the boys, but still pretty darn cute:




Monday, June 9, 2014

Welcome Home

The day for my parents to get home finally came.  My mom called me from the airport in Minneapolis to say hi and that being in MN made her think of me.  She asked what I was doing and I had to quickly figure out what time it was in Houston so I could come up with something to make her think I was in fact in Houston.  So I told her I was getting ready to go to my 11:15 spin class at the Y when I was actually in my sister's basement getting dressed for the day so Miles and I could go greet them at the airport in a few short hours!  It was great and I'm so glad we went!
 The sign Miles made for "Doug and Sally."

All the other cute kids and signs:





Grandma Donna and Jessica!









Here they are!








It was great and we're so glad they are home.

Miles was the most ridiculous, emotional mess when we had to leave to come back to Houston.  It was unbelievably sad and heart wrenching.  He just loves his grandparents so much!  He just bawled and bawled at the good bye at the airport and kept crying all through the airport and our wait until we were on the plane when he finally said through his tears, "Can I please color?" and he finally stopped.  But his tears would well right back up any time he would say something about going home or leaving or whatever.    

And when my parents came to see us here in Houston, we had told Miles that he needed to say goodbye before he went to bed because my parents had an early flight.  It was seriously like my parents were being taken to a concentration camp.  He cried intensely, constantly repeating, "Goodbye, I love you" and waving from his bed.  It was brutal.  Glad we'll get to see them more often and hopefully the goodbyes will get easier for tender little Miles!